Discerning When Giving Is Fleshly/Carnal & Not Spiritual: Giving For Social Ego & Benefits.
People can become extraordinarily generous when generosity enhances their visibility, proximity to influence, or sense of importance, yet become remarkably stingy when generosity requires them to see and respond to suffering that offers them no social reward. The core thing in giving is not how much a person gives but the motive, the heart, it is a question of why people give, to whom they give, and what kind of reward they are seeking from it. There is a form of giving that looks like generosity but is, at its deepest level, an investment in the giver's public identity. That's ego running self-investment in the garb of generosity. A person may give lavishly to a celebrity, prominent minister, politician, influencer, popular organization, or prestigious platform because that giving purchases something intangible: recognition, proximity, favour, access, status, association, or public validation. The gift becomes a transaction: “I give to you because you are important, and your i...